I just came back from the most fulfilling dinner at Paragon Orchard with my most awesomest friends! :) *happy sigh*
From the amount we ate, I believe we ordered the whole Sushi Tei. I have also been dubbed the 'Snack Queen' at my workplace because I am always seen munching and I am ALWAYS looking for food! Imagine for my resume, my award and achievement would be: Team ABC Snack Queen 2009 *cries* At least I know I'll get a great job in d F&B industry for that award >.<
Dinner's conversation was very kinky; but no details on that :p We also discussed about How to make a Guy Love you More and the inequality of a relationship. To me, the key to making a guy love you is when you are as feminine as a woman should be. I mean, the whole point a guy likes you is because you're a WOMAN right? Else he will be together with a man if not for the fact that women should be gentle, loving & caring by nature. You can be sure a tomboy will still have sexy/feminine characteristics that attracts a guy to her if she is attached. If she is not, we now know why!
When me and Cheong Ping interviewed Jiren for his answer, he replied:
A girl should know what the guy doesnt like, and should not do it. Let's say if the guy doesn't like to be disturbed when he is sleeping, then she shouldn't call him when he is asleep. The guy would want to find a girl who is presentable when he brings her to important occasions, able to strike intelligent conversations with his friends & acquaintances and life is not just about shopping and buying new bags. Older guys will want a woman whom he can see as a mother to his children. Of course, the girl has to be somewhat pretty la. *aiyaa, guys will be guys la*
This may only apply to Jiren's checklist but I believe the real thing shouldn deviate too far from that :) A mother to his children! I better start training for that hahaha. I'm also the kind of person who is up for INEQUALITY in a relationship. I am a girl afterall. Open the doors for me, thank you my boy. Pamper me, pick me up for a nice dinner, buy me pretty gifts, treat me like a queen *sits on imaginary throne with ballooned ballgown :)*
Cheong Ping said the man in the rship should also be the one having a higher pay/better career. Absolutely agree. I know that are lots of feminist out there who live by the motto: What guys can do, we can do better! I know darlings, we can. Sure we can. You can be the woman CEO of the biggest company in the world but if your husband is just a mediocre General Manager you can be sure your marriage is not going to work out. Too powerful, too many differences and the man will feel unimportant and useless compared to you. Unless she finds someone her level.
Let the man do the job that should be done by a man, and we woman should do our part to be great moms in the future :D Go ahead and get the best education, the best pay and the best job, but if you're not a good mom, you're not a good wife. Or so according to Jiren. Well, it's always tougher for us women!
My awesome friends :)
